I often wonder why situations turn the way they do. Things you don't want to happen, end up happening and changing lots of things thereafter. Then you hear so many things like, 'it happened for good'. On the other hand such sayings are contradictory when others tell you 'Don't blame circumstances for what happened to you, you are the maker of you destiny.' Somehow i find this statement more convincing and positive than the former. It is true that you can make your destiny if you try and don't give up on things saying stuff like 'it was for good'. This may provide a quick but temporary relief and get you unstressed for the moment and on a positive note, help you focus on other important things and spending time on yourself. Look forward to new opportunities, greener pastures, meeting new friends, exploring new avenues.....But given all this, are you sure that some years later down the line, you won't get a feeling that you did not try hard enough to get what you wanted, or you were lazy to try all odds, or you were just scared of the outcome and didn't have the nerve to hold on??? When do you actually know when a situation is not worth fighting for, is my question? Does everything have to end only because it is in bad taste? Am still thinking...
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